Trust doesn’t happen overnight, so don’t worry if it’s not there right at the early stages of your relationship. As you get to know him, you’ll find out over time whether or not you can trust him. Give yourself time to get to know him on a deeper level, and don’t fall for him right away until you do.
Today, New Jersey Singles reviews how to know if you can trust him. No one is perfect, but if any of these signs are missing, can you really trust him?
- He’s honest with everyone.
If you catch him telling little lies, it’s a key indicator that it’s easy for him to lie. Everyone has those moments, but in general, if he’s trustworthy, then you shouldn’t be catching him being untruthful with people. And we’re not just talking about being untruthful with you here. If he’s always telling little lies and being dishonest with others in his life, he’ll have no problem doing the same thing to you.
- He’s open around you.
Sure, not every call is meant for everyone to hear, but if he always leaves the room to take or make a phone call, he could be hiding something from you. Of course, it’s not polite to answer his phone on a date, but once you’re in a relationship, he should be happy to answer his phone with you when you are there.
- He has nothing to hide.
If you need to use his phone or laptop, he’ll let you use it without hesitation. He trusts that you won’t snoop around, while not worrying that you’ll find anything. Does he let you come to his house sometimes without making a big deal about putting things away first before you arrive? If he’s trustworthy, he’ll let you into his house in a comfortable way, without making you feel like you’re intruding on his privacy.
- He’s open about the relationship.
In a trusting relationship, you’ll both have no problem acknowledging each other. If he tells his family that he’s working, or at the gym when he’s with you, he hasn’t told them about you. Even if you’re not officially a couple, he should be telling people he’s spending time with you.
If he’s hesitant to talk about you or introduce you to his friends and family, it could be that he’s in another relationship already. It’s not uncommon to date multiple people at the same time during the early stages of a relationship, but if he’s devious about hiding that from you, then that’s suspicious.
- He trusts you.
If a man is constantly suspicious or finds it very hard to trust you, chances are you shouldn’t trust him either. If he’s suspicious of you, it could be guilt that’s eating at him. Or he might be looking for ways to get out of the relationship – but wants to make it your fault. Of course, he won’t trust you completely off the bat, just as it will take you time to trust him. But there’s a huge difference between learning to trust someone and not even trying to find that trust.
So, what do you say? Can you trust your guy, or is he just wasting your time? If you’re tired of dating untrustworthy guys who make you question everything, it’s time to let our expert matchmakers step in.
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