You might have had a rough year with your relationships in 2017. You might’ve put up with a lot of things you shouldn’t have in dating and in love. But with it being the new year, we think it’s time you stop putting up with so much unacceptable behavior from men.
Relationships should be handled with a lot of care and love. Initially, everything looks perfect just like in the movies. But eventually, once those rose-tinted glasses come off, you start to see things for what they are. There are several things you should never put up with from a man, no matter how attractive he is.
Also, being that it’s a new year and a fresh start, it’s time you stop putting up with the unacceptable things you put up with last year. It’s time you promise yourself that 2018 will be the year you stop tolerating anything that is unacceptable in your romantic life. And if you don’t know what those things are, our matchmakers are here to help you out.
Today, New Jersey Singles reviews things you should never tolerate from men.
- Physical Abuse
It doesn’t matter how angry he was or how many drinks he had in him, if he hits you, then it goes without saying that you need to walk away. If your man hurts you (even once), chances are he’ll do it again. Don’t EVER put up with such unacceptable behavior. No one should be physically abused by their partner. Kick him to the curb now and save yourself the despair.
- Mental Abuse
Now, your man might never have punched you before, but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t verbally abuse you. It’s called mental abuse, something you should never tolerate from a man. Mental abuse can change you as a whole and break you down as a woman. If your man abuses you mentally and emotionally, you need to let him go. This kind of abuse can be anything from putting you down, calling you names, or talking behind your back. If your guy is guilty, you know what you need to do.
Once in a while, a small little white lie is okay, as long as it’s harmless. But if your man has the tendency to lie compulsively, then you need to rethink this relationship. You should never put up with a liar because it will destroy your state of mind in the long run. You’ll never have trust in anything he says and will constantly be second-guessing him.
A lot of women forgive their guys for cheating and justify it by saying he’s no longer that way. But we’re here to tell you something: if your man cheated on you once, he’ll likely do it again. Even if you’re willing to forgive him, can you live with the fear of knowing he can do it again? You might never be able to trust him again. Why go through all the torture when you can simply walk away?
- Friend Bashing
A man who truly loves you will not love you but your entire world. He will respect and accept your friends and family as though they were his. If your man talks poorly about your friends for no apparent reason, you shouldn’t put up with that. Remember that, at the end of the day, when you break up with him, your friends will be the ones standing by your side. If he stops you from hanging out with them or feels jealous in their presence, consider this to a major red flag.
Let 2018 be the luckiest year for you when it comes to love. If your boyfriend does any of the things above, you need to put a stop to it right away. Stand up for yourself because that’s the only way you’re going to be able to find real love—the love you deserve.
If you’re tired of dating losers and jerks, contact our New Jersey matchmakers today. Let us introduce you to quality men who will respect, adore, and appreciate you for the amazing woman you are. Let us help you find the adoring partner you desire and deserve. Call 1 (888) 417-0020 to book your 100% FREE, in-depth matchmaking consultation with New Jersey Singles today.