Opposites might attract during the early stage of the relationship, but as time goes on and weeks go by, if it becomes apparent that you and your partner are as alike as a squirrel and a lion, then chances are high that the two of you won’t be together for long.
It’s because love is not just about the intense passion that leaves a burn in your veins and a sigh in your heart. It’s also about creating a family together, helping each other accomplish goals in life, and finding the middle ground during hard times in such a way that it does not compromise on the value and principles of one or both of you.
That’s why it’s key that couples grow together, stay together. How can you not when both of you are on the same page on practically everything in your relationship?
So here at the top signs of incompatibility that can destroy a relationship fast.
- You bot have different views on money.
People can say “money can’t buy you happiness” all they want, but you can’t deny that money helps a lot of important things that ultimately make you happy, like paying for school, enabling you to live in a beautiful house, and allowing you to spend money on fun summer vacations.
If you and your partner don’t have the same views on money, that could definitely hurt your relationship. After all, would you really choose to stay with your partner when you find out that he has dipped into your savings without your permission to pay for a night out with the guys?
We don’t think so.
- You have a different sense of humor.
Let’s face it, different people find different things to be funny. It’s a matter of personal preferences and how each of you grew up. That’s why it’s foolish to debate whether your sense of humor is better than someone else’s or not. Both of you will think yours is better and the debate will be over.
And while we don’t mind being friends with people whose sense of humor differs from ours, it can be a huge relationship deal breaker.
Why? Because humor helps you connect with your partner. It gives you meat for future conversations and reminiscing sessions. And it adds an element of fun to your relationship.
- You have different internal clocks.
Imagine this: you are a night owl who wakes up when the sun is considerably high in the sky and goes to bed when the night sky is almost giving way to dawn, while your partner is the total opposite. He wakes up at the crack of dawn and can’t stay up pass 9 at night. How will the two of you ever find time to spend together when you both have different internal clocks?
It’s a huge problem. When you will be up for some fun, he might be too tired for it. And when he wants to have fun, you might be snoring right next to him.
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