You never want to be blindsided with a breakup in your relationship. If your boyfriend is slowly giving up on you, you always want to be sure that you know the signs early on so you can be prepared for what’s coming next or so you can try to fix the problem and save your relationship.
Today, New Jersey Singles reviews the top signs he’s done with the relationship.
- He became emotionally unavailable.
He doesn’t make you feel safe to share yourself with him anymore. In the past, he always used to be receptive to your feelings and emotions – whether positive or negative. He always allowed you to open up to him in whatever way you wanted. But today, things are a different. He is emotionally unavailable to you. He no longer makes you feel like he’s invested in your feelings and so you feel left out in the relationship. You get the feeling that he is no longer willing to listen to you.
- He stops putting effort to make you happy.
He’s no longer invested in making an effort for the relationship. You both know that it takes a great deal of effort to keep a relationship alive. But lately, he’s been very uninterested. He has seemed cold and distant. It’s as if he doesn’t really have a stake in this relationship anymore. He might still be physically present, but emotionally, he has already checked out.
- He criticizes you to put you down.
There should always be room for constructive criticism in a relationship. Couples should always feel free to be honest with each other as long as it comes from a place of love. But you get the sense that there is no love coming from his direction. It’s all about him just hurting your feelings and making you feel inferior to him. He’s doing it to break you down and destroy your heart.
- He stops telling you he loves you.
You definitely know that something is up if your boyfriend has stopped telling you that he loves you. When two people are in love, they should never run out of ways to express their love and affection for each other. But the very fact that he isn’t invested in letting his feelings be known to you at this point may be proof that he’s no longer interested in this relationship.
- He spends less time with you.
You should probably know by now that time is only ever really spent on the people and things that are important to us. We never want to be wasting our time on the people and things that don’t matter much to us. And that’s why you should take a hint. If your boyfriend is spending less and less time with you, it’s because he doesn’t see value in you and the relationship. And it’s because he’s not interested in you anymore. Plain and simple.
If your guy has stopped showing his love for you, you need to talk to him about what’s really going on. You can try to save the relationship or cordially part ways.
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