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New Jersey Singles Reviews 5 Warning Signs She’s Using You

Posted on October 15, 2018 by Nicole

Men tend to believe that the more they invest in a woman, the more she’ll appreciate and love him back. Sadly, even though you could be dropping a lot of money on her and giving her all the attention in the world, it doesn’t mean she feels the same way about you. Watch out for these telltale warning signs from our matchmakers that let you know you are being used by your new love interest.

If she is using you, put a stop to things before they get worse. When we mean worse, we mean you continue to fall more in love while she treats you like trash.

So let’s get right to it so you can learn to recognize the undeniable warning signs so you can put an end to things before you get hurt any worse.

Today, New Jersey Singles reviews the top five signs she’s just using you.

You feel incomplete.

When you’re around her, you feel like something isn’t right. You feel like something is missing, as if you’re not complete. Obviously, this is because she’s not showing you any emotion or investment. This is why you’re doing all of this. You want to please her and make her fall for you. Unfortunately, your plan has backfired on you.

She runs everything.

You’re feeling like you’re doing all the work in the relationship, and that’s because you are. You’re going above and beyond to please her, yet she never does anything in return. We wouldn’t call this a healthy relationship, would you?

If she’s the one holding all the power in the relationship, it doesn’t mean she’s using you, but it does show that you’re in an unhealthy relationship. A relationship has two people in it, not just one. You should both be putting in equal efforts when it comes to your relationship. If not, it’s going to lead to resentment down the road.

You’re her shoulder and provide support.

If she needs emotional support, you’re the shoulder she runs to. Most of the conversations are about her life and all her problems. But what happens when you have a problem? Does she sit there with you and listen to you vent? If she’s only patient when she shares her problems with you, then it’s no longer a two-way-street – and one of the clearest signs she’s just using you.

She only spends time with you at a certain time each day.

This sounds weird, but have you noticed that she only spends time with you before the evening or only after 9 PM? It’s strange behavior, but it completely make sense. If it’s after 9 PM, she may only see you as a booty call and doesn’t want to invest more of her time into you.

She’s not interested in spending her time with you on a regular basis but rather on a schedule that works for her.

You’re afraid to say to no to her.

It’s strange, but when you’re in a one-sided relationship and your partner is controlling you, you’re afraid to say no to them. You worry about how they’ll react and what the punishment will be. But this is simply a form of manipulation. If you’re experiencing these feelings in your relationship, then you need to reevaluate where you stand with her. Relationships are all about compromise and give and take, and if you’re the one who’s always doing all the giving, then you’re not in a happy or healthy relationship.

Just because you’re not being used for money, doesn’t mean you’re not being used. A woman can use you for much more than money. If you recognize any of these five signs in your new relationship, then it’s time you take a step back and really evaluate where you stand. Nobody deserves to be used in the game of love.

If you’re single and tired of wasting your time dating the wrong women, contact our New Jersey Singles matchmakers today and let us help you find true love. Let us introduce you to quality single women who are genuinely looking for that special someone to share their life with – marriage-minded women who are compatible with you. Call 1 (888) 417-0020 to book your 100% FREE matchmaking consultation with New Jersey Singles today!

New Jersey Singles Reviews Advice for a Strong Relationship

Posted on October 15, 2018 by Nicole

We live in an age where relationships break and end all the time, one could mistake it for a common trend. Every single one of you who is reading this blog today has more breakup stories than you do about having a successful relationship.

The sad, single life is everywhere today. It is not just teenagers and young adults who find it hard to keep a partner. It’s adults too. No one can find the right person to settle in a healthy relationship with. Marriages end very quickly. Witnessing failed relationships can really put people off on the whole idea of dating.

But what about those couples that make it past 30 years. And your mother and father? How about your grandparents? Seeing two elderly people holding hands and walking down the grocery isle has undoubtedly become such a rare sight. But it can happen if you and your partner put time and effort into the relationship.

Today, New Jersey Singles reviews how to have a strong relationship that lasts. Discover the key ingredients to a healthy relationship.

They never lose interest in each other.

Happy couples will never lose interest in each other and in their relationship/marriage. Happy and healthy couples want to get to know each other more every day. They want to talk to each other every day. They want to discover things about one another every day, and even when it feels like there is nothing new to learn, they will never let go and allow distance to creep in.

They fall in love with each other every day of their lives. They never stop wanting to be with each other. Happy relationships are the ones in which people don’t get bored of each other.

They have realistic expectations.

Two people in love are guaranteed to always remain in love if the only kind of expectation they have for each other is realistic. Someone who expects the connection they have with a person to always be perfect will walk out of the relationship when things don’t go right. Happy couples know that things get tough along the way, they know their partner will make mistakes, and they know they will have to be ready to forgive and move on from that. That’s what makes a relationship last.

They don’t cheat.

Cheating is out of the question. It’s never, ever an option in a strong relationship. The only couples that can manage to make their relationship or marriage last are those who stay faithful to each other no matter what.

They respect each other’s personal space.

Without regarding a person’s own space, you can’t expect a relationship to go on for long. It’s entirely natural for a human being to need their own personal space, and if it’s not given to them, they will feel suffocated.

One important secret to having a strong and healthy relationship is giving each other personal space. A happy couple will be open with each other about everything. They will voice their opinions, they will very comfortably and peacefully disagree with each other when they have to, and basically, they understand each other every step of the way. They are not jealous or insecure and have no problems giving each other the time and space they need on their own.

So you see, it’s not as hard to maintain a happy and healthy relationship as you might have thought it to be. Use this relationship advice from our NJ matchmaking and dating experts and watch how easy it is to keep the love alive.

If you’re single and ready to meet relationship-minded singles in New Jersey, contact our matchmakers today and let us help you find true love. Call 1 (888) 417-0020 to book your 100% FREE matchmaking consultation with New Jersey Singles today!

New Jersey Singles Reviews 6 Signs You’re Just His Side Girl

Posted on October 15, 2018 by Nicole

We don’t know what to tell you, it hurts. You’ve stumbled on the telltale warning signs that you’re just his side dish. With social media and the fear of missing out, people are afraid to commit themselves to someone because they think something better is just around the corner.

Now, this isn’t an excuse for a guy to be in a relationship and have side chicks, as well. They know what’s right and what’s wrong. So, let’s not give them too much sympathy here, ladies.

If you have a weird feeling about your relationship and sense that he’s not being honest with you, then you could very well be the side woman.

But let’s not jump to assumptions either. Instead, let’s look at the signs and put the puzzle pieces together.

Today, New Jersey Singles reviews the top signs you’re the side dish, not his main squeeze.

You never met his friends.

When a guy wants to show off someone he really likes, he first introduces her to his friends. When you meet the friends, it’s a sign that he’s really into you and wants to show you off to everyone. Typically, he likes to keep you around and wants everyone he knows to meet you. This means he sees you as relationship-worthy.

He doesn’t see you that much.

If you were his girlfriend, he would use his time to make sure that he sees you as much as he can. However, as a side woman, he only sees you once, maybe twice a week. He sees you but dedicates most of his time to the real girlfriend. So, if he’s not giving you his time, then you are not the main girlfriend.

No photos of you exist.

If you’ve been dating him for a while, it’s normal that there would be photos of you on social medial. But when you try to take a photo of him, he freaks out and tells you to not post anything of him online. Come on, you know what that means, right? He is clearly keeping you as a secret. It’s because he doesn’t want anyone to find out he’s hooking up with you.

You don’t go on dates.

When you’re dating, you should go on dates with your partner. Maybe you go see a movie, go grab coffee, or go out to eat. Point is, he’s taking you out to spend quality time with him. Netflix and popcorn in his bed doesn’t count as a date. If he doesn’t take you out of the house, there’s a reason why. Never overlook this one, ladies.

He doesn’t open up to you.

When you know you’re only going to be sleeping with someone for a short period of time, you don’t open up to them and share personal things. If you’ve tried to get him to be emotional and he shuts down, he doesn’t want to get attached to you – and for good reason… He’s already attached to someone else.

He sees you at the same time every day.

When he does see you, it’s usually always the same time and the same day. It’s like a routine. He has to keep it like this because he has his cheating down to an art. He has a specific excuse for that time block when he’s with you. That’s why you never see him outside of that specific time and day.

So, tell us, how many of these signs do you see with the man you’re dating? Are you just his side chick? If you notice a couple of these signs, it’s time you open your eyes and face the truth, the brutal truth that you’re just a side piece to him.

If you’re single and tired of meeting men who aren’t serious about dating, contact our matchmakers today and let us introduce you to quality men in New Jersey. Call 1 (888) 417-0020 to book your 100% FREE matchmaking consultation with New Jersey Singles today!

New Jersey Singles Reviews the Top 5 Reasons Men Ghost

Posted on October 5, 2018 by Nicole

Ghosting is pretty much the act of stopping all communication with someone out of the blue, mostly in the dating world. So the big question here is why do men ghost? Did he meet someone else? Did he get bored? Is it forgetfulness, did they lose your phone number, or are they just afraid of saying that they are not interested in dating?

Yes, sometimes this is totally innocent and two people just lose touch with each other. But in many cases, ghosting is the act, and guys are the culprit.

There is never a good excuse to ghost someone. Ghosting is very disrespectful and is very hurtful and confusing to the person on the receiving end.

Today, New Jersey Singles reviews the most common reasons men ghost.

He is lazy.

When a guy is not interested or loses any interest he did have, he will just stop answering phone calls and text messages. We know that’s pretty rude, but he may not even see it as an issue. He may not even think that whatever you had requires an explanation. So in other words, he is just immature.

He is afraid.

And not of his feelings for you but rather his fear of confrontation. He simply does not want to put in the effort it takes to say something as simple as, “Sorry, I’m not interested in continuing to date you,” or “Sorry I’ve met someone else.”

As many guys, especially those who ghost, tend to think, girls are crazy for asking a simple question. He is afraid if he says anything in regards to his no longer being interested in you that you will lose your cool.

When really you might just say, “That’s okay, thanks for letting me know.”

He wants to keep things open for the future.

Yes, this is super counter intuitive. Any guy who thinks this is the way to keep the possibility of something on the table has lost their mind.

It is true that guys think if they never really end things with you and just ignore you that when they reach out months down the road, things will be okay. Since technically they never ended things with you, they believe they can pick up where they left off. Uh-uh, that’s not the way it works.

He doesn’t want to hurt your feelings.

Now this is really a funny one. Some guys who ghost actually believe that they will spare your feelings. We know, right? They think that by ghosting you they are being nicer than actually telling you that they don’t want to date you.

Yes, it requires less of his time, energy, and communication, but it does absolutely nothing to make your feelings less hurt.

He doesn’t have time.

Yet another reason guys ghost that makes no sense at all. Although ending things, especially when it is still early on, only takes a few minutes, guys believe that is too much to handle.

We don’t get it. Here at New Jersey Singles, we find this “ghosting” phenomenon to be outrageous and immature. Although, that doesn’t stop men from doing it. If you’ve been ghosted, don’t let it discourage you. It simply means you’re not meeting the right men. You’re not meeting men who are mature enough to be in a relationship.

If you’re single and tired of meeting men who are emotionally unavailable, and those who ghost, contact our New Jersey matchmakers today and let us introduce you to relationship-minded men in NJ who are looking for true love. Call 1 (888) 417-0020 to book your 100% FREE matchmaking consultation with New Jersey Singles today!

New Jersey Singles Reviews Signs You Need to Break Up

Posted on October 5, 2018 by Nicole

In all relationships, there comes a point when the honeymoon stage is replaced by a decidedly less pleasant time. Arguments come up more readily, less free time is spent dedicated to each other, and other people suddenly seem a whole lot more interesting than they did when you and your partner were snuggled up on the sofa every night.

The question here is, whether things have broken down so much that they can’t be fixed. Our New Jersey matchmakers have heard it many times before and have compiled the following list of signs that indicate termination territory. However, it shouldn’t just be one of them that gives you the justification to walk away from your boyfriend, but rather, a combination of them.

Constant Bickering

Constant bickering and arguing is a sign that the relationship is almost at the breaking point, unless that was part of the relationship at the beginning. Whether or not it is a truly relevant reason to walk away depends upon the frequency of arguments. Needless to say, violence during these arguments means you should walk away as soon as possible. Violence is never okay in a relationship.

Less Sex

Sex isn’t really the be-all end-all of all relationships, but it is a hugely important part. If sex completely disappears from the relationship, then shared levels of intimacy suffer a lot and the bereft partner is unlikely to want to continue in the relationship. It could be the case that the partner who is refusing sex has already come to that decision.

Avoiding Home Not-So-Sweet Home

Home is an environment that everyone should want to go back to after a long day at the office – it is your security and nurtures your strength. However, if the thought of going home is the last thing on your mind, purely because you don’t want to deal with your partner, then it is a strong sign that things aren’t going well for you anymore. If you do everything you can to avoid going home after a long day at work, you know you have some relationship issues to deal with.

Different Future Goals

Do your aspirations mismatch? Are one of you upwardly mobile and the other would rather sit at home all weekend? This is definitely another tick in the signs you should break up.

Different Taste

He likes to party on the weekend, she likes to stay home. He likes vacations on tropical islands, she likes sky resorts. He’ll go for a comedy movie, where she likes horror flicks. Sometimes, such differences can be quite charming, but eventually they start to grate your nerves. This is a sign that it’s time to weigh your options.

Family Matters

In a relationship where one half wants children but the other doesn’t, this can be a huge deal breaker. Sometimes, it’s worth hanging on for a change of heart, but just as often, it’s time to call it a day and move on.

Closed Ears

If you’ve stopped listening to your partner, or they have closed their ears to you, then serious relationship issues can creep into your particular situation. Time to walk away.

So how many of these signs do you notice in your relationship? Is your relationship doomed or can it be saved? Only you can make that call.

If you’re single and ready to meet relationship-minded singles in NJ, contact our matchmakers today. Let us introduce you to compatible local singles who are fit to date and ready to settle down. Call 1 (888) 417-0020 to book your 100% FREE matchmaking consultation with New Jersey Singles today!

New Jersey Singles Reviews Signs You Lost Attraction for Them

Posted on October 5, 2018 by Nicole

As relationships continue, the attraction, at some point, will fade away. For some couples, the attraction can last years and years before fading away. For others, it’ll be sooner than expected. We get into our daily routines and things get stagnant. This feeling of stagnation is what causes the attraction to fade away.

Of course, we would all love for our relationships to feel like they did during the early stages, where we feel butterflies and can’t keep our hands off each other. This is a high level of attraction, and it’s what makes us want to continue seeing each other.

You may be asking yourself why you lost the attraction for your partner. Well, as you grow as a person and as an individual, your relationship keeps growing as well. This is because you’re learning and experiencing new things together. But in this case, there could also be a loss of attraction, where you simply don’t feel the connection anymore.

Listen, no one said love was easy, and there’s certainly no equation to it. But what you need to know if you’re feeling a loss of attraction for your partner is what to do next.

Today, New Jersey Singles reviews the top four signs you lost the spark in your relationship.

Everything about your partner annoys you.

Before, you loved the way he slurped when eating soup or the way he hugged you, but now, everything he does bothers you. You can’t handle the way he looks at you, how he speaks, or even how he dresses. You just can’t take it another day. But is this just a mask for something deeper? Does this mean it’s over or are you able to move past this?

You think about other men.

There could be someone at work that you find attractive or perhaps even your partner’s friend. When you think about them, you feel the butterflies in your stomach. In fact, you can’t stop thinking about them. At this point, your partner isn’t someone you’re really interested in.

Maybe they bore you or certain characteristics irritate you. Or perhaps you’ve grown apart. But the key thing here is that your libido is functioning normally. Unfortunately, it letting you know that you’re no longer attracted to your partner.

You don’t want to be intimate with him.

You don’t look forward having sex. Don’t get us wrong here, you enjoy sex, but sex with him is no longer a desire for you. When something lacks in the relationship, people have less of a desire to have sex with their partner.

In other cases, sex simply becomes boring. However, this doesn’t mean you’re not attracted to them. It could be that you have a loss of libido caused by stress or depression.

You don’t think about him during sex.

When having sex, your mind is in a totally different place. You think about other men, what you need to buy at the grocery store, that fact that you should you go to the gym… thoughts that certainly don’t need to be brought to the bedroom. Clearly, your sex life has become a routine.

Now, this doesn’t necessarily mean you’re no longer attracted to him, it could mean that you need to bring the spark back in the bedroom.

Sometimes, you’re not sure what you’re feeling, and you can’t really pinpoint what’s going on. But if you’re feeling less attracted to your partner, and you’ve tried overcoming these feelings of not wanting to be with them, then it looks like you loss the attraction for them. You have the choice of talking to them and trying to overcome these feelings or going your separate ways. Maybe you just need to spice things up in your romantic life, and not just in the bedroom.

If you’re single and ready to meet attractive and successful men in New Jersey, contact our matchmakers today. Call 1 (888) 417-0020 to book your 100% FREE matchmaking consultation with New Jersey Singles today!

New Jersey Singles Reviews How to be a Gentleman

Posted on September 30, 2018 by Nicole

Feminism may be everywhere today, but that doesn’t mean we don’t still appreciate the traditional values of an old-fashioned gentleman. Learning how to be a gentleman and charm women will help you in your dating life.

Having a man hold the door open for you, pull out the chair, and even walk around to the other side of the car to help you out are not merely kind gestures. These are small moments that show the lengths that a man is willing to go for a woman.

You have the ability to become a gentleman and charm women everywhere you go. You just have to know what to do in order to bring out the gentleman inside you. And before we get into it, be sure you are not simply acting like a gentleman to win women over. You have to be a gentleman because it’s the right thing to be today.

Today, New Jersey Singles reviews the top five tips to become a gentleman.

Notice when the moment strikes.

When it’s raining, offer to share your umbrella with her. Offer to help someone struggling to load groceries into their car. Reach up and grab something off a high shelf when you see her struggling. Be aware of those around you that could use a gentlemanly act from you. Being a gentleman is all about helping others, not just yourself.

Put efforts forth.

Being a gentleman isn’t about having the ideal wardrobe, it is about what you do with the one you already have. You need to put efforts and show you that you know how to dress for the occasion. But dressing well isn’t the only way to show her she’s worth your effort.

Bring flowers for her mother and maybe wine or whisky for her father. It is about making a good first impression and you never go to someone’s house empty-handed. Making extra effort isn’t showing off, it is showing her that you have good intentions.

Keep things private.

Something that can make all the nice gestures in the world useless is spreading rumors and gossip. A man can appear to be a gentleman at first glance, but once he goes off and tells his friends or even strangers something he shouldn’t, he loses that gentlemanly title.

Now, what sorts of things shouldn’t you tell? Well, we like to say if you wouldn’t tell your mother, you shouldn’t tell anyone else. You can tell your friends that you are seeing a woman and she is cute and funny, but telling them anything personal, private, or intimate is off-limits.

Be patient.

Gentlemen can be in a rush, but they always show signs of patience. You say excuse me when you are rushing through a crowd. You wait your turn. You may be charming, classy, polite, and confident, but being a true gentleman is not playing a part. That means in all circumstances your gentlemanly ways should shine.

This also applies to dating. Whether she wants to wait to meet your parents, wait to kiss you, or wait to do anything else, be patient. Any decent gentleman knows that the right lady is worth the work and wait.

Respect women and elders.

If you want to know how to be a true gentleman, remember that respect goes a long way, and without it, all the other things don’t mean anything. Knowing that everyone deserves to be valued is a big part of being a gentleman.

So you see, it’s not that hard to be a gentleman. Taking these things and turning them into actions will help you become a true gentleman.

If you’re single and ready to meet relationship-minded single women in NJ, contact our New Jersey Singles matchmakers today. Call 1 (888) 417-0020 to book your 100% FREE matchmaking consultation with New Jersey Singles today!

New Jersey Singles Reviews 5 Reasons You Attract Toxic Men

Posted on September 30, 2018 by Nicole

First of all, it’s very important to know that if you find yourself involved in a toxic relationship, it isn’t your fault. You are just a victim in this situation, and you should never blame yourself for it. You are not the reason that you are experiencing so much pain and torment in your life. However, if you keep finding yourself in situations with toxic men, then you need to reassess your own life.

You need to take a closer look at your life and figure out what it is that you’re doing to get yourself in such bad spots. You need to figure out why you keep attracting the wrong types of men in your dating life.

Remember that at the end of the day, you need protect yourself. You really need to realize that you are the only one who has your own back in this world. And that’s why you need to arm yourself with the proper information and knowledge to protect yourself from toxic men.

Today, New Jersey Singles reviews the top five reasons you keep attracting toxic men in your life.

You have low self-confidence.

You have very low self-confidence and so it makes you a very easy target for toxic men. You don’t really think much of yourself. You don’t know your worth and so it makes you an easy target for them. Since you don’t have much confidence, you don’t really demand for what you’re deserving of in love or life.

You are too nice.

You are too nice to every man you meet. And it’s unfortunate to entertain the idea of having to lower your levels of niceness. You always want to be your best and nicest self. However, you have to be able to pick and choose your spots as well. You don’t want to be so nice to the point that it compromises your own sense of well-being.

You are too empathetic.

Empathy is something that you should never just let go of completely. It’s always nice of you to be empathetic towards everyone. You should never compromise your sense of sensitivity. However, you should also know that a lot of problematic people are going to be attracted to you because you are too empathetic. They will love that you’re so willing to listen to them.

You love fixing problems.

You see something that’s broken, and you obsess over trying to fix it. You see a problem somewhere, and you obsess over trying to find a solution to the problem. You have always been this way, and it has carried over into your dating life. You seek out the very flawed and broken people because you so desperately want to fix them.

You are broken from past relationships.

You have to remember that toxic men love to feed on women who are weak and broken. And when they see that you are still clearly carrying emotional baggage from the past, they will try to take advantage of you. These manipulative men are going to want to prey on you for your weakness.

If you keep attracting toxic men in your life, you need to do some self-evaluation and get to the root of the problem. Before you can stop attracting all the wrong men, you need to work on improving your own life. You need to be able to stand up for yourself and do what’s best for you.

If you’re single and tired of meeting the wrong types of guys, contact our New Jersey matchmakers today and let us introduce you to quality single men in New Jersey who are a great fit for you.

Call 1 (888) 417-0020 to book your 100% FREE matchmaking consultation with New Jersey Singles today!

New Jersey Singles Reviews What Men Do When They’re in Love

Posted on September 30, 2018 by Nicole

We often read and hear about observing a man’s behavior when you’re interested in him and want to know if he feels the same way for you. But what about a bit deeper into the dating stages?

It is said that there are some general things every man does when he’s in love. They will treat you with respect and kindness, give you space, admire your individuality and love you unconditionally. When a man views you as a partner, you will notice these actions.

However, before you can observe someone’s action while being with them, there are certain acts of affection you’ll notice from a man who thinks of you as a partner for life.

Today, New Jersey Singles reviews the top things men do when they’re in love.

He plays with your hair and his.

When a guy falls in love with you, he will have the urge to play with you and will make cute gestures towards you. If your guy plays with his hair or beard when he is near you, this is one of those signals that he wants to appear as perfect as he can for you. Not only will he fidget around, but he will also play with your hair. He will swirl and ruffle your locks. If your guy plays with your hair, that means he loves you.

He never takes his eyes off you.

The guy who has fallen head over heels for you will not be able to take his eyes off you. He will want to stare at you and watch your every action. He will be so into you that you will be the only thing he would want to see whenever he is with you. His fascination will make his pupils dilated, which will be very noticeable to you.

He gets near when he talks to you.

Yes, it is right that women talk a lot and men usually don’t care what their partners have to say to them. But if your guy always makes it a point to listen to you, he definitely cares about you and everything you have to say. He will make an effort to keep the conversation going and keep you interested in the things he has to say, as well. He won’t mind listening to you for hours and hours. You can talk about everything you want, and he will be all ears.

He smiles a lot.

When a guy is comfortable around someone or if he likes someone, it will be difficult for him to hide his emotions. He will be smiling from ear to ear when he’s near you. His happiness is focused around you, and he will smile ear to ear when he is with you. It is said that men do not give a bright smile on just any casual day, so when they do smile bright, they are actually delighted to be with you. To maintain a healthy relationship you need to return this gesture and make him feel comfortable around you.

As you can see, there are many ways to read a guy’s emotions for you. So tell us, does your guy hold the same flame for you, or are you still searching for Mr. Right?

If you’re single and ready to meet relationship-minded singles in New Jersey, contact our NJ matchmakers today and let us do the matching.

Call 1 (888) 417-0020 to book your 100% FREE matchmaking consultation with New Jersey Singles today!

New Jersey Singles Reviews Traits of a Great Boyfriend

Posted on September 18, 2018 by Nicole

No two people are the same, and women are no different. Everyone has a different list of priorities and traits that they want in a partner. However, there are certain traits we all want from our partner.

So what are those traits that make a great partner? There are many different traits you would hope your partner would have. However, these traits are the few character traits that we would recommend you look for on your search for Mr. Right.

Today, New Jersey Singles reviews the top traits of a great boyfriend.

Integrity

You always want to make sure that you are in a relationship with a guy who is strong in his convictions and who stays true to his priorities in life. When you stand for nothing in life, you are bound to fall for anything. So when you know that your boyfriend is a man of integrity, someone who really stays true to his beliefs and his morals, then you know he’s a guy who is mature enough to be in a committed relationship.

Consistency & Stability

You don’t always want a guy who is going to be hot and cold with you. You don’t want a guy who is just going to be filling you with a lot of uncertainty. You don’t want a guy you can’t trust or rely on. You want to be sure that you have a boyfriend who is dependable, someone who is always going to be there for you. You need a boyfriend to show up for you whether you ask him to or not.

Thoughtfulness

Selflessness is always important in any type of relationship. You have to remember that when you are in a relationship with someone, you are going to have to learn to share your life with them. You can’t afford to be selfish in the relationship and still expect things to work out for the better. You are going to have to be thoughtful and must look for a man who is the same.

Kindness

There can really be no love where there is no kindness. And if you have a guy who just fails to be kind, then you know that this man is not capable of being in a relationship. And it’s important that he’s not only kind to you, but that he’s kind to everyone he comes in contact with. You see, if a man is kind to you but isn’t kind to others, then he isn’t really a kind man. You always want to make sure that he is someone who is consistently kind, the type of man who’s kind to the waiter and the homeless person on the street.

Lightheartedness

You don’t want to be with a guy who is going to be rigid and serious all the time. There is a lot of stress and pressure that comes with being in a relationship, and it’s important that you are with a guy who is able to relieve that stress and pressure in a lighthearted way.

If your guy has these five characteristics, then hold on to him tightly. It’s not easy to find a guy who will make for a great boyfriend.

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